Monday 29 January 2018

Am I Really Acting Sex Starved?

My husband did something that is really paining me o... I'm the quiet one and he's the outspoken one, so whenever we argue, he will want to defend himself to the last.

So over the weekend, we did a lot of work especially him and while he was
busy working, I was cooking. He didn't want to tell me how far he has gone with the chores he was doing and he didn't want me to assist him either because of my nasal allergy and I was angry, because I felt he's seeing me as very weak to do serious chores.

When we were eating, I accused him of being sneaky about the chores. He ignored me.. I stopped eating, I did not even carry my meat..I went to sit down and turned my face away.(Yea I'm petty and spoilt like that). Mr boo did not say anything, he kept eating and started chewing his meat very well so I will hear him...and I was very very hungry because I've been waiting for him to finish the chores so we eat together as usual. He did not just ignore me, he went ahead and ate my big meat.

I just swallowed saliva immediately he started chewing my own meat because I knew it was my meat he was eating at that moment... With that anger, I went to sleep with hunger but he did not beg me to eat unlike before. Meanwhile, no sex because we are trying to make babies, so he's storing his "something" to be rich enough to fertilize during ovulation.

Only for him to wake me up in the morning, he apologised, we prayed and he turned to me and said
"Baby, do you know why I ignored you when you were just talking and talking yesterday?"
"No, why...So you know you were doing it intentionally abi?"
He laughed and then said "..... I know you are restless because you've not been banged... You know if it's before, as you are just talking, I'd just carry you, kiss you and knack you very well and you'll become dumb, so just calm down, we have few days left..." Chai, that was like adding salt to injury... I felt embarrassed and most of all, I felt like a wild dog on her heat period.

Are women usually restless when they are sex starved?